I have come to the realization within the last month or so that I take dating way too seriously. I'm not sure where exactly it stemmed from, but I have always thought that by going on a date with a guy you were committing to being in a relationship with him.
Talk about pressure on the first date!
Because of this I would tell guys that I wasn't interested, since I didn't necessarily want to be in a relationship with him. Like I said, not sure where this train of thought came from.
This topic came up talking with a friend last night. She too had come to this realization. Dating is supposed to be the time to get to know someone to see if you want to be in a relationship with him. Go on a date, have fun, decide whether you want that relationship when the DTR (define the relationship) conversation comes up. Otherwise, date away.
Now obviously you still have standards (no homie/gangsta for me) for the guys you go on dates with, but for the most part (hopefully) they will be decent guys that you can just go out and have a good time being spoiled.
What a relief!!
Now who's going to take me out Friday? ;)
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